When you are unexpectedly pregnant, the choice is ultimately yours. If you have decided that adoption is the best outcome for your pregnancy, there may be people around you who might disagree or even try to pressure you toward a different result.
Read this article for ways to manage differing opinions as you plan your pregnancy.
Do Your Research
If you are choosing adoption, research the process so that you can be prepared for questions that your family may have about your decision.
Consider whether you want a relationship with the child (or not), and make sure that you understand what the adoptive family may cover for adoption-related costs.
Note: Post-adoption contact plans are resolved outside the court and are not legally binding in North Carolina.
An adoption counselor, along with supportive loved ones and a mental health professional, can form a team that helps you feel supported and empowered as you choose adoption and prepare to tell your family.
Do Your Best to Explain
The extent of communication will vary based on your relationship with your family. If they are generally supportive, explain why adoption is the right choice for you based on your research
If you trust their judgment, be open to hearing their perspective. However, if you’ve already thoroughly assessed the pros and cons of adoption, you must convey that you’ve decided and would value their support.
Find Support at Hope First
Whether your family is supportive or not, we offer a safe space for you to learn more about adoptions, share any questions or concerns, and feel supported in your decision.
We are here to help you feel informed and empowered in your choice. We can also connect you to a reputable adoption agency. Contact us today to make an appointment!